Cyber-bullying has recently become a serious issue in online safety. In fact, The National Crime Prevention Council reports that almost half of all American teens are at one time affected by cyber-bullying. Just as it sounds, cyber-bullying occurs when someone publishes hurtful or embarrassing messages about another person on the web. It occurs frequently on social media platforms, such as Facebook and MySpace. It can also occur through blogs, email, forums, text messages and other communication methods.

Recently the news has reported an increase in cyber-bullying cases. When they are not dealt with, it can lead to tragedy, as was seen with the 2010 death of Phoebe Prince. Cyber-bullying can lead to depression and suicidal thoughts in young adults and children, not to mention poor academic performance. Parents have a responsibility to monitor Internet usage and pay close attention to their child’s social lives.

Here are 10 tips to keep in mind if you have children who may be exposed to cyber-bullying:

1. Limit the amount of time your child spends on the web. Try setting time limits.
2. As a parent, become “friends” with your children on their social media accounts so you can track any visible signs of bullying immediately.
3. Put the computer in a common area, such as near the kitchen or family room.
4. Talk to your child’s school to start a program on bullying prevention. If they already have one, make sure that cyber-bullying is an aspect of the program. It should have a system to report to teachers any signs of trouble.
5. Investigate further if your child seems hesitant to attend social events or school.
6. Take action if you notice your child becoming withdrawn or showing signs of lower self-esteem or depression.
7. Contact the school and get the principle and teachers involved.
8. Change phone numbers or email addresses if bullying continues.
9. Block bullies on social media like Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, etc.
10. Report to the website owner any harmful content on their site posted by bullies.